If you don’t like something, CHANGE IT; If you can’t change it, CHANGE the way you think about it!
Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken.
— Oscar Wilde.
We are trained to look at things in a certain way,within a certain box from our childhood itself. It will influence our decisions more than we think. We are trained to prepare for the worst but not to try our best by seeing what could go right! As a motivational speaker I myself have faced situations in life where things went remarkably right by just changing the negative mindset into a positive one. I guarantee you, results will be amazing.
positive thinking lead you to your happiness while negative thinking lead you to misery, so the question is, what would you choose? Happiness or misery??